Whether it’s your fault or not, things have a tendency to either wear down or break completely. Although you might not have something you had before, you still have a choice: will you get bitter, or will you get better?
None of us start out being bitter, and none of us become better without making that choice. We’re continually choosing who we’re becoming. This is especially true when things break. The person you are today is a result of the gradual attitude changes made over a period of time. Who do you want to become tomorrow? What are you willing to change today to become that person?