It’s just as telling (if not more so) as what we are saying.
If we communicate in order to solve problems, then when we aren’t, we aren’t.
When someone asks a question, do you get frustrated? Do you feel defensive? Is your culture conducive to those questions?
Talking is your job. Talking is the point. It’s what we do!
If something goes without saying then you can bet that you’re missing out on a lot of important stuff.