you shouldn’t want it to be. If it were, there would be no point in pursuing it.
The goal isn’t to make things difficult on purpose, either. The goal is to simply accomplish the thing you set out to accomplish…with the understanding that it’s going to be challenging.
So, now that you know what you want to accomplish, the real question is “what are you willing to push through to achieve it?” What are you willing to stand for, bleed for, commit to, and generally be headstrong about?
Because that’s what’s going to actually make it happen.